Some things are better left untouched and some women are better left single. No matter how inviting and perfect any of these women seem, you should try your best and keep your distance, you will thank us later.
We are going to give you a list of women you should not date and you should remember that to every rule, there is an exception.
In general, stay away from these women if and when you come across any of them.
1- Your Best Friend's Sister
This rarely goes well, be it in Nollywood, Hollywood or real life. Remember Tony Montana in Scarface? To the girls it is not a big deal to go out with their brother’s friend, but guys remember, it is not a good idea, and make sure you do not allow the ladies folks lure you into such a relationship.
Guys, your friend does not want you close to his sister probably because he knows your mode of operation and he does not want his sister to become a name in your hall of fame. Besides that, would it not be awkward for you to start sharing relationship details with your girlfriend’s brother
Remember, if you are really serious, talk to your friend about it first. And even if he approves, be ready to lose that friendship. You win the girl and lose a friend
Worst case scenario, you break her heart and you get into a fight with your best friend, you lose the girl and a friend.
2- The ex-girlfriend
There is a reason why she is your ex, you should never forget that. You might be tempted go back to your ex whenever you are bored, lonely or Hot.
As a rule, you never go back to your ex-girlfriends. It is like the proverbial going back to your vomit.
You might start to get nostalgic and all, but you should remember that there was a reason she is in your past and that should be the same reason she should remain there.
3- 6- The high-maintenance piranha
If your income is trailing behind her needs then it would be a good idea to tie up your shoe lace and run for your dear life and money. At first, you might kid yourself into thinking that as time goes by her needs are going to dwindle. You continue to kid yourself until you realize that her goal of this girl is to bankrupt your future.
It is almost impossible to have a relationship without spending money, but if her love for you is going to be on a per-second-billing then you should also know that you will be disconnected when you run out of “airtime” and she is going to “port” to the next guy with the most cash.
4- Your co-worker
Your co-worker is one girl that should not be on your radar when searching for a relationship.
You could lose your job because of this girl and she might dump you three days you were fired for having an affair with her. There is also the risk that you two might get carried away and indulge in acts meant for the bedroom, with the hopes that you won’t be caught.
Even if you do not get fired because of her, you might create unnecessary enemies, especially when she is hot and everybody wants her, including your boss.
She is also going to be a huge source of distraction. There is also going to be that awkward week/month that you would have to endure after you break up with her.
And just in case she is the boss’ daughter, it is a huge no-no
5- In a relationship
When a girl is already in a relationship before you meet her, the best thing for you is to leave her alone. There is no way it is going to turn out good.
If a girl is in a relationship before you met her, and she still agrees to date you, what does that tell you? Yes, she is not the faithful type and definitely not a keeper.
If she is in a relationship and refused to go out with you because she is in a relationship, then that is a trait you should admire, too bad she is not faithful to you. And you should not wait by the corner waiting for another man’s relationship to crash.
Even if you decide to be just friends, you already like her, and might put her relationship with the other guy in jeopardy.
6- Narcissist
Everybody girl deserves some attention from her lover (to show her that you love her). Some girls just think that the world is a stage and they are the star. When she talks, she wants everybody to listen, when she is in trouble, everybody should console her. She wants to be the center of your life, having no regard for your sibling, parents, friends and sometimes even your job. She is ready to anything for special attention; cry, play victim, lie, just about anything. As long as you supply her with an unending supply of attention she if okay.
At first, you would be flattered that you mean so much to somebody and then she would begin to sap the living being out of you, the stress would make look twice your age and if you do not get away from such a girl in time, you might just visit your ancestors a lot earlier than you planned.
7- The Underage
It does not matter how big the girl appears, or how matured she seems. As long as a girl is below 18 in Nigeria, she is clearly off limits. Except of course, your picture in a National Newspaper and a jail sentence sounds like fun to you.
When in doubt about her age, ask her or people that really know her. Now how can you read our blog if you are in prison?
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